Author · Speaker · Advocate
this isn’t the story
you think it is

Faith, family, and a bunch of dogs.

Author of Beyond the Velvet Ropes

These days I’m happiest in the small stuff — my kids, my husband, a houseful of rescue animals, my faith, and finding ways to give back. I had a wild, wonderful run in my twenties, and I’m grateful for all of it. But the part I care about most isn’t the glamorous version — it’s the ordinary, happy life I have now, and the book I wrote about finding my way here.

Jen Archuleta

“Your story isn’t what happened to you. It’s what you do with it.”

Story

The Author

Her memoir, Beyond the Velvet Ropes — and the writing that turns hard chapters into hope.

The book

Voice

The Speaker

Faith, resilience, and reinvention — on stages and wherever women are rebuilding.

Speaking

Heart

The Advocate

Beyond the Ropes and The Forever Angels — choosing the overlooked, one act at a time.

The movement

Beyond the Velvet Ropes book cover
The Memoir — Out Now

Beyond the Velvet Ropes

My Story of Perseverance, Hope, and Love

From the outside, my twenties looked like the dream — covers, cameras, a life behind the velvet ropes. But the real story was never the part people saw. It’s in the moments I never talked about, and the long road back to the ordinary, happy life I have now. I wrote all of it down — the hard, the funny, and the faith that carried me through. If you’ve ever come through something and made it to the other side, I wrote this for you.

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Watch the Trailer

“Everyone knew the headlines. No one knew the story.”

The official trailer for Beyond the Velvet Ropes — about ninety seconds.

The Story

The long way to an ordinary, beautiful life.

I grew up in a small Ohio town being told what I couldn’t do — and I spent my twenties proving otherwise, in rooms most people never get to see. I’m grateful for every bit of it.

I also walked through some genuinely hard things to get here. I stopped hiding them, and I learned that the hard chapters can become something you give back. What I’m proudest of now isn’t any of the rooms I used to stand in — it’s the plain, happy life right in front of me.

“You didn’t need rescuing. You needed time. Time to find your voice. Time to believe it mattered.”

Start with the first chapter
Jen Archuleta portrait
the fun part…
Meet Jen

Beautiful, a little bit of trouble, and not done yet.

Let’s be honest — I’ve never minded the camera. Magazine covers, red carpets, getting dressed up, a good laugh. I’ve always had a soft spot for animals, and plenty of rescues at home to prove it. Faith, family, and fun, all at once — and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Jen Archuleta — glamour portraitJen ArchuletaJen Archuleta with a rescue puppyJen Archuleta — fit at 50
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Beyond the Ropes

Everyone belongs beyond the ropes.

A velvet rope decides who gets in and who stays out. This is the opposite of that — a quiet practice of choosing the overlooked, and reminding each other that no one’s story is over.

The Journal

Notes from the road back to myself.

Short, honest writing on faith, family, healing, and starting over.

Faith

It is in the waiting that we become who we’re meant to be.

Healing

Survival isn’t the same thing as healing.

Family

What I want my kids to know about getting back up.

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The Shop

A few things worth sharing.

A signed copy of the book, a tee I love, and a rescue close to my heart. Story, a good reminder, and a way to give back.

Book

Signed copy — Beyond the Velvet Ropes

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Apparel

Be the Bumblebee tee

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Give back

The Forever Angels

Support the rescue →

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Read the first chapter — free.

Before the velvet ropes. Before the headlines. The real story. I’ll send the opening pages straight to your inbox — and if it sounds like something you’ve lived too, you’re exactly who I wrote it for.